In a previous life I was an academic with a doctor in philosophy, an LGBTQI activist, and then for a number of decades deeply enjoyed working as director in large international NGOs. Yet, my heart was always longing to be a teacher and my faith has given me deep callings. On this path I delved into becoming a medial coach, and an ICF accredited management coach, a legal mediator under Belgian law, as well as a very experienced trainer in companies and organisations. To this day I stand on both my spiritual and my business oriented legs, giving trainings, coaching, mediations and team building in the business sector alsmost every week - by now deeply infusing them with my tantric, trauma body work, shiatsu wisdoms, and spiritual learning.

And actually, the call of the divine did not make me leave management and NGOs behind to give trainings but to finally do what I heard already the call for when I was twelve: leave everything behind, follow me! That this path is related to the healing power of pleasure, liberated consensual sexuality, and clear voyant spirituality was revealed to me in my early thirties. But it was not until I was in my 40s, when I immersed myself in a deep and challenging path into self-development, trained in tantra and delved radically into my faith, when I could finally do away with 30 years of severe depression and self-loathing, allowing me to finally embody! love and my two-spirit nature. Then the vision was fully revealed and the call could be heard, understood and materialised: ConSensual and my original invention of tantric BDSI (I truly was the first in the world to coin that term, define, practice, and develop it) came alive, and my tantric, clear-voyant, trauma body work, constellation, and shiatsu professional trainings merged into a whole, added to by a life of being 'collored' in to the divine Goddess, following the spiritual call of Jesus and Mary Magdala, and obviously daily embodiment practices. A reality of a full and rich life, in conscious relating to my Beloved Linde, and with it a channel for my true healing and teachings powers.

So here I am, and yes I also have over 20 years of experience as a conscious kinkster. I organised in the first queer BDSM scene in Berlin, I have been a slave and a master, a drill sergeant and a devote sailor boy, a slut and an innocent lover. Oh yes and very important: I am a proud trans man with a non-binary and pansexual nature. I thrive on bringing a unique blend of neuroscience insights and body focus, a deep ongoing learning attitude, humility, care, presence, love, and excitement for the beautiful divine potential of each person. I have deep faith in our spiritual source as deeply rooted in our body temple. I specialise in magic energy body work with full presence, and love to take people into life changing worlds of healing, pleasure, and expansion with mediation, body experiences and yes ropes, floggers, or impact play combined with simple but penetrating energetic touch that allows expansion or trauma release. Welcome to ConSensual, founded in 2020, the first school of body consent based tantric BDSI... and sooo much more.

I completed the Pathway Journey in ConSensual in 2023 and joint the team right after that. I love to bring my medial and healer capacities to the team and the participants, as well as enjoying the continuing space of exploration for my capacity to be both in my power and in the deepest surrender. Let me captivate you during ConSensual retreats, enticing you into a world of divine exploration and sensual awakening.

My own brainchild is Goddess Creations, where I work as  a renowned spiritual coach, medium, and healer, offering a tantalising array of services, including intimate personal consultations, enchanting retreats, and playful coaching sessions, Goddess Creations invites you to drive deep into the realms of your soul. Explore the depths of your desires, uncover hidden truths, and ignite the flames of passion within. "We are all Creations of Goddess and everything we do is a Goddess Creation."

With my seductive expertise in various spiritual traditions and healing techniques, each encounter becomes a sacred dance of self-discovery and erotic empowerment. Embrace the seductive journey of spiritual awakening and sensual enlightenment at Goddess Creations today.

💜💙🧡  www.goddesscreations.nl

When I was younger, I was passionate about science and keen to discover how our bodies and plants functioned on a biochemical level. I have always studied and worked in exact sciences. After a first burnout when I was 35, the last minute prevention of a second one and the diagnosis of ADD (at the age of 38), I finally discovered my true talent is not thinking, but FEELING!

I started taking massage courses because I felt a deep need for physical contact. What I didn't expect is that I could enjoy giving massages so much. First off I studied meridian massage, lateron I discovered Hawaiian body work: the Lomi-lomi massage. A revelation. I learned to feel more pure and deeply energetically, also with master classes in bone washing and joint mobilizations. Aferwards I deepened my knowledge of bodywork and delved into PSOAS massage, the muscle of the soul and the Gaia method (soft touch de-armouring).

March 2022 I entered my first tantra retreat ever @consensual. Deep dive immediatly. I’ve experienced countless ego deaths and deep transformations in the sacred space of the Consensual temple. It felt like a coming home. I love the depth and safe pressure-cooker container it provides for deep transformation in anyone who is prepared to walk this pathway.

If you are called to entrust yourself to my touch check out my website or follow me on FB or Instagram.

www.bijfien.be   Facebookpage: Bij Fien  Instagram: @Bij Fien

Ever since I was sixteen, I was in and out of therapy and couldn’t seem to find what I was looking for: safety in my body. It wasn’t until Consensual that I discovered the depths of my body, my abilities to feel (so very deeply!) and my love for helping people heal themselves.

I currently study Primal Rebirth Therapy (PRT), including lots of inner child work, and contribute insights from this and my own path during ConSensual Retreats. It is a pleasure to use those tools within Consensual and helping others find safety and pleasure within themselves as well.

I hope to see you in the field! My contacts are: laura[at]fwords.nl

Hi everyone,

I'm Paul, and I'd like to share a bit about myself and what I bring to the table. In 2022, I completed the Pathways program. Now, I'm part of the team, and my aim is to guide you through your process. My expertise lies in inner child work and addressing early attachment traumas. Additionally, I have experience in shiatsu and Thai massage, along with a background in martial arts. This enables me to create a safe space for you to navigate emotions like suppressed anger or fear in a healthy way.

You could say that I offer a blend of gentle, attuned touch and a powerful dose of healthy masculinity.

You'll often find me at Consensual, accompanied by my girlfriend Laura. She's a beacon of light, and together, with your consent, we strive to facilitate healthy bonding with both the masculine and feminine aspects.

See you soon at ConSensual and maybe you are also ready to explore the beautiful challenge of a Primal Quest with me

If you want to want to find out more go to my website www.paulvanderkooi.nl or reach out to me per phone +31617238902