over 25 years of experience. Over 700 participants. JOin now.
RETREATS
Are you ready to expand your soul, harness more life force energy and create deep safety within your body?
Delve into the magic of conscious expansion and true embodiment through tantric, spiritual, and shamanic traditions.
workshops
& temple nights
Explore and deep dive into different aspects and techniques of ConSensual embodiment in our workshops and implement the discoveries in sensual play during our Temple Nights.
1-on-1
A special 'just for you'-time to create somatic, emotional and karmic clarity, healing integration and deep transformation via body work, coaching or constellation.
WHAT people SAY
I am so grateful I dived into these pathways. Each one of them have held one of the most profound experiences of my life. From facing and going into the deepest darkness of true ego death to the highest realms of ecstacy, power and bliss.
Thank you so much Jonathan & the A-BDSI-Team to create this pressure-cooker-safe-space where all these processes get to happen in a safe non-judgemental atmosphere.
Aho, I bow before all of you Goddesses & Gods
FienHow Jonathan and Linde put their mind body and soul into this work is simply awe-inspiring. There are tantra retreats and there are the Consensual retreats of Jonathan, that are in a class of their own in all positive meanings of the expression. The unique marriage of tantra and BDSI being taught at Consensual is simply put ground breaking for a whole new and different approach to sexuality and spirituality.
Sam AI did all the pathways in a row, never expected that it will be bring me so much and that I would have grown this way. It makes me feel more secure about myself, my sexuality and my kundalini energy in general. I am so grateful that Jonathan and Linde’s work has come into my life, for me it feels like home to be part of this family. So much love.
InekeMy journey through Pathway I-V: I felt so welcome, there was a lot of processing, yet this Journey is not about pain, technics or tools, it is a SAFE playground for emotions, feelings, desires that are ‘difficult’ to show to the outside world. After I did all the retreats, I am showing them more in the ‘real’ world. I am not done yet and I will join you next year again!
EddyThis Pathway Journey will change your life forever, there is no way back!
NicoThis journey of Pathways was so eye-opening in so many ways. Jonathan, Linde and the team are amazing and caring, creating this wondrous space of safe exploration in digestible bits, where everybody can feel heartfelt welcome, regardless of their gender, orientation or relationship status. The retreats are super approachable for people with zero experience in tantra but also for new dimensions for sensual practitioners, thanks to Jonathan’s unique vision and tools of BDSI.
SamI went through all the Pathways and I find it a deep fulfilling journey and very naturally flowing from one pathway to the next. They are carefully designed to really bring our spiritual and shadow parts into union through experiencing all shades of our sexual nature. I feel very grateful for it is a deeply healing expansive journey, really a path a recommend for everyone on the tantric path who seeks transformation through working with the body.
KatarinaDuring this journey I learned to step into my power! I started feeling very vulnerable and powerless. Today I can state my boundaries and I know they will be respected because I am worth to be respected. It gave me the gift of being in true connection with others, showing myself and being powerful in my vulnerability.
Ann-SofieThe Pathway I to IV, as designed by Jonathan, provided me with a deep insight in how I relate to myself, my partner and the world around me. The phased build-up of practices and experiences during the events helped me expand in conscious relating, exercising power and control in both personal and business situations and maintain my presence in challenging settings and environments. Above that it made me a better friend and lover as I could finally grasp and embody a lot of tantric and energetic principals heart over the past years.
PeterIt is a whole Journey; all retreats are connected to each other and it will make sense in the end. The facilitators have everyone in mind and the depth in how they do this following the divine is beyond. It’s really an example of how the lead from “above” with their whole heart in it.
JessicaWhat a Journey and Experience…..my Loooooord! 🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀 Experiencing full dominance and the devotion that can come with submission lead me to a complete new dimension, a new way to evolution.
MireyaThis is a unique pathway journey, to become more yourself, a loving child of the universe, a human on this earth that is and caries the divine in oneself…the facilitators do this in a very unique way guided from divine transmission. Deep deep thank you!
HildePast the stories, issues, fears, shame…in 9 months’ time to liberation, I danced, played, laughed, got healed, freed the Goddess in me, the Goddess that already was there but was afraid to show herself. Every woman and every person should follow this Journey of Pathways en be part of this amazing family. Deep respect for every part in us is what connect us to each other. Very powerful experience.
LienWow ♥️ what a sensual journey into our soul’s depth . It's so great how working with the right tools and the right people can change our reality and our well-being. I deeply support and appreciate what you do for the world and I am grateful that your assistants also have opportunities to develop with you. What an emotional path, caring and empathy what you offer us .Thank you for the opportunity to be a witness of this bliss, the deep changes of participants that fill my heart with light and love.
AgathaWow what a ride! My life has literally changed since I set foot on the first Pathway. I have to discover and acknowledge the full spectrum of my sexuality permitting myself to live my shadows. My “No” has become stronger or rather I have become stronger in standing in for myself. This is such important work and I feel honoured to have been able to receive this healing and expanding support. A full recommendation to anyone willing to look at his/her own shadows.
Alice6 Months ago, I would never have thought I would live this experience but meeting the right person on the right time and her “soft” pushing me into this pathway journey was the best thing ever in my life. So I started PI, just to see, but it changed my life completely! New job, new energy, new friends, new insights but mostly a new me. Allowing this to happen could only be possible by following all the pathways. The pathways are so built that step by step (yet in an intense way) I could become the new version of who I am. Thank you so much for bringing this into the world. Love.
John
UPCOMING EVENTS
ConSensual in festival style in Ruurlo NL!
Yes! ConSensual is coming to the Netherlands for an entire weekend at Gaia Land!
Organised by Bien on her beautiful land, we will the three of us guide you, in a festival format, into our world of conscious play, ConSensual bondage and flogger techniques, ritual power and surrender, and raw authenticity.
A weekend in which your body, your desires, and your Being are completely welcome. Where you can sink in, breathe, feel, explore, take the lead or fully surrender — all held in a lovingly present container with warm and precisely attuned attention to you.
Friday, July 18 at 16:00 until Sunday, July 20 at 17:00, with ConSensual at Bien’s cozy workshop barn and the loft-like farmhouse of Gaia’s Land in Ruurlo. With the forest in our backyard, a small beach and lake, a campfire area, and a hot tub on-site — it’s a true oasis of peace.
Maximum 40 people (including team and participants).
Price 550,- with all food included.
For more info click book now to see the event on FB or write an e-mail to Bien.
Shibari Bootcamp
Discover the art of Shibari - emotionally connected tying, where rope becomes a bridge to deeper connection. In this half-day bootcamp workshop, you'll learn how rope can be a powerful conduit for Ki energy, creating experiences of profound presence and emotional connection.
This workshop goes beyond mere techniques, focusing on the essence of Japanese rope art: creating safe, intimate experiences through mindful presence. You'll learn the foundations of emotional rope work, essential safety principles, and how to use rope as a tool for meditation and connection.
No prior experience needed - just bring an open mind and heart. Every participant will practice both tying and receiving. No pre-agreed partner required.
1st o May is sold out unfoturnately. Next opportunity below.
HALF DAY (12:00-16:30)
DATE: 28th OF JUNE 2025
LED BY SAM
PRICE: €85
EARLY BIRD PRICE till 11th May: €70
Temple Night & Workshop: Shamanic Flogger Journey & Making your own Channeled Flogger
You will go on a shamanic journey around the magical powers of floggers. We will flogger dance and you will be able to 'download' your specific pathway with a flogger.
In the afternoon you get to make your own flogger, led by shamanic flogger maker Christoph (part of the Consensual team), who will guide you into the meditation of making your flogger (all material will be provided).
The temple night will also focus on flogger work in the first 2 hours and then float into free engagement.
This workshop and temple is a bit more oriented to people with experience in Consensual's flogger work, who already understand the magic of the flogger journey.
FULL DAY (10:00-18:00)
DATE: 31ST OF MAY 2025
LED BY JONATHAN, LINDE & CHRISTOPH, JUDITH
PRICE WORKSHOP: €100 + €90 FOR MATERIAL
PRICE TEMPLE: 80,-
NEXT WORKSHOP AND TEMPLE PARTY DATES:
4TH OCTOBER 2025
6TH DECEMBER 2025
workshops will be anounced soon.
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