upcoming events

We offer workshops and temple nights, usually in combination. Some of our core team members also offer workshops at Casa LoJeMa. You find all upcoming events below.


Please note: our events are open to all, newcomers and experienced ConSensuals. Yet, some events require some experience to be safe and fully benefit. Please always write to us if you are a newcomer and tell us about you so we can support safety for you.


Please be on time, all our events start punctually. Please follow the payment instructions as given by the provider of the workshop. Thank you!

ConSensual in festival style in Ruurlo NL!

Yes! ConSensual is coming to the Netherlands for an entire weekend at Gaia Land!


Organised by Bien on her beautiful land, we will the three of us guide you, in a festival format, into our world of conscious play, ConSensual bondage and flogger techniques, ritual power and surrender, and raw authenticity.


A weekend in which your body, your desires, and your Being are completely welcome. Where you can sink in, breathe, feel, explore, take the lead or fully surrender — all held in a lovingly present container with warm and precisely attuned attention to you.


Friday, July 18 at 16:00 until Sunday, July 20 at 17:00, with ConSensual at Bien’s cozy workshop barn and the loft-like farmhouse of Gaia’s Land in Ruurlo. With the forest in our backyard, a small beach and lake, a campfire area, and a hot tub on-site — it’s a true oasis of peace.


Maximum 40 people (including team and participants). 

Price 550,- with all food included. 

For more info click book now to see the event on FB or write an e-mail to Bien.



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Shibari Bootcamp

Discover the art of Shibari - emotionally connected tying, where rope becomes a bridge to deeper connection. In this half-day bootcamp workshop, you'll learn how rope can be a powerful conduit for Ki energy, creating experiences of profound presence and emotional connection.


This workshop goes beyond mere techniques, focusing on the essence of Japanese rope art: creating safe, intimate experiences through mindful presence. You'll learn the foundations of emotional rope work, essential safety principles, and how to use rope as a tool for meditation and connection.


No prior experience needed - just bring an open mind and heart. Every participant will practice both tying and receiving. No pre-agreed partner required.


1st o May is sold out unfoturnately. Next opportunity below.


HALF DAY (12:00-16:30)

DATE: 28th OF JUNE 2025

LED BY SAM

PRICE: €85

EARLY BIRD PRICE till 11th May: €70

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ConSensual Temple Night October 2025

This will be a special temple for all ConSensuals and those who wish to feel and experience the energy for exploration. 


We will have an experiential intro workshop of ca 90 minutes, to fall into our (energy) bodies, practice somatic consent, and at least one of the ConSensual sacred tools :-). The temple itself is free practice for everybody, newcomers will be supported by us, and the space is as always held.


An unforgettable night in the consecrated temple space of Casa LoJeMa. We are looking forward to welcoming you from our heart!


TIME: 18:30 START, END 23:30ish

DATE: 4th OF OCTOBER 2025

LED BY JONATHAN & LINDE 

PRICE TEMPLE NIGHT WITH SHORT WS: 80,-


IF YOU WANT TO STAY OVER FOR THE NIGHT THERE ARE 9 BEDS  AVAILABLE


Booking will open 18th June.


NEXT WORKSHOP AND TEMPLE PARTY DATES:

6TH DECEMBER 2025

this might end up a 2 day special on 'juicy genitals'... stay tuned.

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FAQ

You might have some questions. Find the answers here.

  • Who are the temple nights for?

    The ConSensual temple parties are primarily for those who are ConSensual graduates. If you are new to ConSensual and want to explore this, you are also very welcome.


    Before you register it would be good if you send us a mail telling us what your background is so that we can help you assess whether this space will be safe and expansive for you.


    The temple: come and enjoy the atmosphere, love, and connection of ConSensual, expand into more embodiment, play to your hearts’ desires, find others topractice with during this night and go into bliss, healing, flight or pleasure together.


    The temple is not a workshop but a free temple play space and participation is fully in responsibility for yourself.


    However, we will always create an introductory practice time to fully land in your body and there will be space holding to create a safety and expansion field for you.


  • What are the workshops about?

    We will usually offer a workshop on that same day for deeper exploration and practice.


    Those workshops are given by Linde & Jonathan or one of the experienced professional team members of ConSensual.


    They cover a wide range of practices, skills, and experiences in the field of tantric BDSI, tantra, shamanic, breath, or medial work.


  • What are the times of the workshops & temple nights?

    Start of Workshop: 14:30 to 18:00 (arrival as of 14:00 please, we will start sharp, door closes).


    Some workshops are for a full day from 10:00 to 18:00. Please watch for the announcement.


    Start of temple at 19:30 sharp with a joint ritual to allow you to reconnect, open up and feel into your body.(Arrival as of 19:00 please, we will start sharp, door closes)


    End: latest 1:00 am, spaceholding stops at 12:00

  • What about food & accommodation?

    Food: we will provide ample light snacks, water, and tea. You need to have eaten your evening meal before the temple though, there is no proper meal provided.


    If you attend the workshop bring ready made food with you to eat before the temple starts. For full day workshops please also bring your lunch with you.


    Please remember ConSensual is a drug and alcohol free space!


    Accomodation: we have 9 beds available in 'Heaven' (above the temple space), on a first come first serve basis, the rooms of Casa LoJeMa are not open for temple parties.


    You HAVE to bring a sheet, your duvet or sleeping bag and a pillow. Costs: 30,- pppn. Latest check-out time 11:00 (out of the house).

  • What are the costs?

    Costs: 80,- Euros for Temple Party (including snacks) and 60,- Euros for the workshop (half day version), 100,- for full day version, payable in advance on a bank account you receive on the registration form.


    Please note that some workshops maybe more expensive if material is involved (e.g. flogger making).


    Workshops delivered by ConSensual core team members have their own pricing, registration, and rules. 


Tantric BDSI is the art of blending power, presence and profound intimacy.

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